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Product Code:
260205
Model:
9789867011510
Product by:
漁人文化
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Delivery Fee:
WM - RM 5.30
EM - RM 12.72
FREE shipping within Malaysia for orders over RM 79.00
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Product Information

ISBN: 9789867011510

出版日期: 2007-01-01

作者: 田玉川

裝訂: 平裝.單色印刷.272頁.

 

   中國人講關係、論交情,還要給足面子! 面子,乃命之所繫,被人看小了,看扁了,豈能等閒視之!? 人要臉,樹要皮;餓死事小,面子事大。人,生命中的第一需要即是面子。 中國人講面子,無論是貴為天子,還是賤若草民,都要面子。 皇帝要面子、宰相要面子、王公貴族要面子、黎民百姓也要面子……面子是折磨龍族五千年的心病。

  孔子曰:「人而無信不立。」中國人自古崇尚朋友有信。信,就是面子的承諾。三國時,劉備、關羽、張飛桃園三結義,一生親如兄弟,共創蜀漢大業,至今傳為佳話;北宋山東水泊梁山,一百零八將,個個豪爽仗義,俠肝義膽,殺富濟貧,替天行道,情同手足,「不願同生但願同死」,英雄氣概依然撼人肺腑。梁山好漢雖也看面子交朋友,但表?如一,肝膽相照;是後代交朋友的楷模。 項羽力拔山兮氣蓋世,乃公認的英雄,可惜兵敗垓下,四面楚歌,按說勝敗乃兵家常事,項羽完全能夠憑萬夫不敵之勇殺出一條血路,回到江東,重整旗鼓,捲土重來,但項羽覺得無顏見江東父老,為保面子而演出了一幕霸王別姬、烏江自刎的悲劇。自殺,人們都知道是絕望,孰不知還為保面子。因為人活著,就難保面子不被汙損,不受殘傷,只有一死了之,才能徹底保護面子的潔淨完整。

  活人一生在盡力保面子,死人也很重視面子。加封忠臣、孝子、節婦烈女、追認為英雄、追記三等功等,是在保生前的面子;為祖先遷墳立碑,重修墓園也是在保面子……

  儒家所謂的修身、齊家、治國、平天下,強調每個人的行為都在保家族,保國家的面子。為保面子而生,為保面而死,生得偉大,死得其所。 沒面子的日子,何其艱難?何其悲傷?誇面子無疑是最好的補償了。只有這得到的,能讓勞損的筋骨舒展,能讓負傷的心靈癒合,能讓眉間的愁雲離散,能讓蹣跚的步子輕盈,能讓被剝奪的自尊回歸……同時,只有面子的光彩、香味、氣勢能「回報」那久久的污辱和欺凌。

  中國人的腰,本來就難伸直。幾千年的封建皇權,像大山一樣壓著,豈有不彎之理?艱難的生活,累得死去活來,又如何輕易能伸直?頂天立地地活著,昂首挺胸地走著,巍然屹立地站著的,究竟有多少人呢?

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Shipping Information
ZoneWeightDelivery Fee (RM)
West MalaysiaFirst 2.00 kg5.30
West MalaysiaAdditional 1.00 kg2.12
East MalaysiaFirst 1.00 kg12.72
East MalaysiaAdditional 1.00 kg12.72

ZoneOrder Price Range (RM)Delivery Fee (RM)
West MalaysiaAbove 39.00FREE
East MalaysiaAbove 79.00FREE

 

 

 

 

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