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教養,有時需要換句話說:這個時候,你可以這樣讚美或責備
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ISBN: 9789861363189

出版日期: 2012-04-25

作者: 明橋大二

譯者: 裴立杰

裝訂: 平裝.全彩印刷.200頁.

 

最懂孩子心&最體貼父母的兒童心理專科醫師,
寫給你最受用的親子對話及互動範本!

  千篇一律的「快一點」「不准XXX」「專心一點」,真能改變孩子嗎?
  聰明的父母明白,教養,要因時制宜,經常用不同的話語,使孩子更受益!

  ★當孩子撒嬌、耍賴、打人、叛逆、鬧情緒、口出惡言時,應該怎麼說?
  ★當父母感到心力交瘁、情緒崩潰、孤立無援、自我否定時,應該怎麼想?

  孩子的行為或情緒,都是在等待父母回應!
  讚美可以說得更具體,責備可以說得不傷感情!

在愛裡導正偏差、讓孩子感受到父母的關愛,並解決父母最常遇到的教養難題:

  .讓孩子盡情撒嬌與嬌慣孩子,完全是兩回事!

  .只是提醒一下,孩子就氣得哭起來,並不是抗壓性低,只是比較敏感,要採取適合孩子性格的方法鼓勵他。

  .小孩是透過吵架學習如何處理人際關係的。

  .讚美兄弟姐妹的原則是,無論如何不要讓孩子內心感到寂寞。

  .越是強迫孩子說「對不起」,孩子越固執,他們的心會逐漸遠離你。

  .充分得到父母讚美的孩子,即使出社會後不常受到稱讚甚至遭到否定,也能憑著信念堅定行事。

  .將孩子微不足道的言行視為善意,說聲「謝謝」,就能培養他做事的熱情。

  .孩子出言不遜,表示他開始有自己的主張和意志,這是成長的標誌。

  .如果總是不斷否定孩子,等於教他學會自我保護的方法:找藉口、撒謊、把大人的話當成耳邊風。

  .找一個能認同自己,並聽你傾訴的人,可以提高父母教養時的自我肯定感。



作者簡介

明橋大二

  1959年生於大阪府。精神科醫生。畢業於京都大學醫學部。

  曾任職於國立京都醫院內科、名古屋大學醫學部附屬醫院精神科、愛知縣立城山醫院。現任真生會富山醫院心理診療內科主任、兒童諮詢機構特約醫生、學校心理醫生、NPO法人兒童權利支援中心Palette理事長。

  著有《教出耀眼的孩子》《這樣說,教出令人稱羨的孩子》《養出有扺抗力的孩子》《爸媽最想知道的65個健康問題》《這樣讚美與責備,孩子知道你愛他》等暢銷書。

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ZoneWeightDelivery Fee (RM)
West MalaysiaFirst 2.00 kg5.30
West MalaysiaAdditional 1.00 kg2.12
East MalaysiaFirst 1.00 kg12.72
East MalaysiaAdditional 1.00 kg12.72

ZoneOrder Price Range (RM)Delivery Fee (RM)
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